My husband started journaling… Mind Blown! | Molly Nichols

My husband started journaling… Mind Blown!

My husband did not start looking inward because I told him to. Or tried to convince him to see value in something I was doing. I tried all of these things in the past…They NEVER worked. What worked… Was focusing 100% on myself.

The most incredible thing happened this week.
 
My husband started journaling.
 
Not only did he start journaling, he actually allowed me to lead him through a series of journaling prompts.
 
(Mind Blown!)
 
See, my husband is the type of guy who likes to spend a lot of time in his head.
 
He always needs to “think about things.”
 
So, to see him get clarity through journaling and doing the inner work was AMAZING!
 
Now, I did not try to push journaling on him.
 
I did suggest it… of course. lol
 
But, in the end he decided to journal on his own.
 
Then when he felt stuck in the process, he asked ME for help.
 
All I can say is that my heart has been bursting since!
 
See, my husband did not start looking inward because I told him to.
 
Or tried to convince him to see value in something I was doing.
 
I tried all of these things in the past…
 
THEY NEVER WORKED!
 
What worked…
 
Was focusing 100% on myself.
 
I’ve been doing some really deep inner work over the last several months, and he’s seen the change in me.
 
He’s seen how good I feel–mind, body and spirit.
 
And I’ve released my attachment to needing him or anyone to see value in the things I’m choosing to do to take care of myself.
 
My soul knows what it needs and I’m FINALLY choosing to fully listen.
 
And in doing so…
 
I’ve given him the space to choose what feels best for him.
 
I know at times you feel drawn to do things to support your fertility that other people may not see the value in or understand.
 
But, in your heart YOU know that it will help.
 
If this is happening right now in your life…
 
My loving invitation is to follow that knowing.
 
You don’t have to convince anyone!
 
YOUR DON’T NEED OTHERS TO SEE VALUE OR TO VALIDATE WHAT YOU, IN YOUR HEART, KNOWS IS THE TRUTH!
 
You can trust yourself.
 
You can do what you need to do to take care of yourself.
 
You can choose yourself.
 
When you live your life this way you’ll show up so much more fully.
 
You’ll create space for others in your life to do the same.
 
You’ll also reflect this powerful energy to your children.
 
And what a beautiful thing that will be!
 
So, today and every day remember you know what’s best for YOU!
 
Sending you love and a huge hug! 
 
Molly

 

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