My son called me out | Molly Nichols

My son called me out

See, I know that my children are ALWAYS watching me.They are listening, feeling and absorbing everything.My children are my teachers and my mirrors.So, when I casually criticize myself to a point that my son would notice and ask me about it, it shows that this is a behavior I’m reflecting to them.Which of course is NOT my intention. I also don’t feel guilty.This was simply an AWARENESS and an INVITATION for me to become more present to the way I speak about myself inside my head and out loud.

I was taking selfies with my little ones in the driveway of our home.

As I looked at one of the images I casually said out loud…

“This one is good of you, but not of me.”

My son then asked me…

“Mama, how come you never like anything with you in it?”

Now, I think of myself as a pretty confident woman.

I also think I’ve come a long way in the realm of SELF LOVE!

But, as I asked my 7-year-old son to tell me why he thought that I don’t like things with me in it…

He went on to tell me how I ALWAYS like things with them, but not of me.

It was one of those moments that hit me in my core.

See, I know that my children are ALWAYS watching me.

They are listening, feeling and absorbing everything.

My children are my teachers and my mirrors.

So, when I casually criticize myself to a point that my son would notice and ask me about it, it shows that this is a behavior I’m reflecting to them.

Which of course is NOT my intention.

I also don’t feel guilty.

This was simply an AWARENESS and an INVITATION for me to become more present to the way I speak about myself inside my head and out loud.

I look at this simple moment out of a thousand moments in this day as such a gift.

I’m going to tune in and get really present to how I speak about myself.

Because I want to reflect SELF LOVE to my kids.

So that it gives them permission to love themselves more fully.

So, have you been really hard on yourself lately?

Do you find that you casually criticize yourself as you move through your day?

Are you ready to shift this behavior with me?

Type YES in the comments! 

We can do this together!

Sending you love and the biggest hug,

Molly

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  1. Maria

    Yes! Thank you, beautiful megamama, for sharing so much. I’ve never come across anything like your podcast before and learned much about myself from your webinar. Some of your thoughts are just like spoken from my heart. Sending you a rainbow above your house from Russia.

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    • Molly Nichols

      Thank you love! I’m so happy you are enjoying the podcast and blog. Sending you love and a big hug

      Reply

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Do you ever wonder if you’re meant to have a baby?

Like if it’s all meant to be, maybe you would have had your baby by now…

Right?…

WRONG!

Just because having your baby has not been easy…

Just because you’ve had to go through ALL you’ve been through…

Just because you’ve not yet become pregnant…

DOES NOT MEAN IN ANY WAY THAT YOU’RE NOT MEANT TO HAVE A BABY.

Honestly, the exact opposite may actually be true!

WHAT IF…

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What if your fertility journey is a DIVINE part of your own spiritual awakening?

What if this is your invitation to see your fertility journey through a new lens of hope and possibility.

See, getting pregnant is about SO much more than just sperm and egg meeting at the perfect time.

It’s about you calling the soul of a child, of another human being, into your heart, womb and life.

It’s about you and the mother that you will be to your child.  

It’s about the soul of the child and their life’s journey.

So, to simplify things and say that perhaps it’s just not meant to be because it has not happened, YET, or because…

You’ve experienced one or more losses.

You’ve been told so by another person.

You’ve had unsuccessful treatment cycles.

You’re approaching, or are in, your 40’s.

You can fill in the blank.

Whatever your reasoning, I invite you to consider this…

What if IT IS ALL meant to be {{ subscriber.first_name }}?

What if all the pain

Loss

Heartache

The waiting

Has ALL been meant to be?

All in order to bring you to this moment of self-awareness.

So you can CHOOSE to trust and believe that you and your body are not broken!

That time is not running out!  

That you are connected to the soul of your baby!

And that perhaps the true journey is just beginning, because in this moment, if you’re reading this, you know that something within you is shifting and waking up.

In your heart you know the TRUTH of what is meant to be.

YOU can feel the SOUL connection you have with your future child.

That’s why you’re still here!

That’s why you’re still doing the work.

That’s why you’re still following your soul’s desire to have a baby.

So, next time you find yourself wondering if it’s all meant to be…

Stop what you’re doing

Close your eyes

Take three deep breaths

Connect with your heart, womb and baby.

And then ask yourself…

What is meant to be in this moment?

What does my soul know to be true?

What does my baby want me to know?

And see what comes up!

Allow your soul-to-soul connection with your baby to be your compass!

Are you ready to trust what you in your heart know is TRULY meant to be?

Share with me your thoughts in the comments below!

2 Comments

  1. Maria

    Yes! Thank you, beautiful megamama, for sharing so much. I’ve never come across anything like your podcast before and learned much about myself from your webinar. Some of your thoughts are just like spoken from my heart. Sending you a rainbow above your house from Russia.

    Reply
    • Molly Nichols

      Thank you love! I’m so happy you are enjoying the podcast and blog. Sending you love and a big hug

      Reply

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