Do you ever wonder if you’re meant to have a baby? | Molly Nichols

Do you ever wonder if you’re meant to have a baby?

Do you ever wonder if you’re meant to have a baby? Like if it’s all meant to be, maybe you would have had your baby by now…Right?…WRONG! Just because having your baby has not been easy… Just because you’ve had to go through ALL you’ve been through… Just because you’ve not yet become pregnant… DOES NOT MEAN IN ANY WAY THAT YOU’RE NOT MEANT TO HAVE A BABY.

Do you ever wonder if you’re meant to have a baby?

Like if it’s all meant to be maybe it would not be so hard, or you would have had your baby by now…

Right?…

WRONG!

Just because having your baby has not been easy…

Just because you’ve had to go through ALL you’ve been through…

Just because you’ve not yet become pregnant…

DOES NOT MEAN IN ANY WAY THAT YOU’RE NOT MEANT TO HAVE A BABY.

Honestly, the exact opposite may actually be true!

WHAT IF…

Your fertility struggles are actually a gift to support you in becoming the woman and mother you’ve always been meant to be in the world and to your children?

What if your fertility journey is a DIVINE part of your own spiritual awakening?

What if this is your invitation to see your fertility journey through a new lens of hope and possibility.

See, getting pregnant is about SO much more than just sperm and egg meeting at the perfect time.

It’s about you calling the soul of a child, of another human being, into your heart, womb and life.

It’s about you and the mother that you will be to your child.  

It’s about the soul of the child and their life’s journey.

So, to simplify things and say that perhaps it’s just not meant to be because it has not happened, YET, or because…

You’ve experienced one or more losses.

You’ve been told so by another person.

You’ve had unsuccessful treatment cycles.

You’re approaching, or are in, your 40’s.

You can fill in the blank.

Whatever your reasoning, I invite you to consider this…

What if IT IS ALL meant to be?

What if all the pain

Loss

Heartache

The waiting

Has ALL been meant to be?

All in order to bring you to this moment of self-awareness.

So you can CHOOSE to trust and believe that you and your body are not broken!

That time is not running out!  

That you are connected to the soul of your baby!

And that perhaps the true journey is just beginning, because in this moment, if you’re reading this, you know that something within you is shifting and waking up.

In your heart you know the TRUTH of what is meant to be.

YOU can feel the SOUL connection you have with your future child.

That’s why you’re still here!

That’s why you’re still doing the work.

That’s why you’re still following your soul’s desire to have a baby.

So, next time you find yourself wondering if it’s all meant to be…

Stop what you’re doing

Close your eyes

Take three deep breaths

Connect with your heart, womb and baby.

And then ask yourself…

What is meant to be in this moment?

What does my soul know to be true?

What does my baby want me to know?

And see what comes up!

Allow your soul-to-soul connection with your baby to be your compass!

Are you ready to trust what you in your heart know is TRULY meant to be?

Share with me your thoughts in the comments below!

Love and hugs,

Molly 

 

P.S. Have you joined my new Fertility Support Circle on Facebook!

This group is filled with the most incredible women and I would love for you to be a part of it!

>>You can join the group here<<

It truly is a safe special space for women on their journeys into and through motherhood to share and receive support! I also share tons of inspirational fertility goodness in there as well!

 

9 Comments

  1. Joanna

    Molly, your email to me today filled me with such hope. I have never looked at my struggle to have children as a blessing until now. Thank you for sharing this message with me.

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    • Molly Nichols

      Joanna, that is amazing. I’m so glad that you can see it as a blessing. It truly shifts how you will move through your journey.

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  2. Monica

    Molly thank you for your email today. I feel that it is direct confirmation to me to keep believing trusting in this process there is a reason. I feel such a strong soul connection to my babies and kniw they are meant to come. So I need to continue to fight for them, trust my body. I did feel a shift and energy come up as I realize this is not a struggle but a journey and I believe it will happen

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    • Molly Nichols

      I love this monica! Such powerful energy! xoxo

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  3. Rita

    Dear Molly,

    This meant to be or not question has been part of our life for many years now. I cann’t begin to tell you how grateful I feel that finally someone is bringing this topic up.
    While I was reading your email today.. i literally felt rocks rolling off my chest and I felt so relieved.
    I’m 42, my husband is 47 and we have been on this hoping for a baby journey for many years. We’ve had 7 IUI ( one was successful ) but I had a miscarriage, then I fell pregnant naturally, but miscarried again, then we had an unsuccessful IVF ).
    I have and still asking my husband endless times: Is it meant for us to have a baby?
    Can we still hope?
    When do we stop hoping an how do we know it’s the right time?
    Shall we just accept, it’s not meant for us? Etc. Etc…
    Reading your email today, was a new window opening towards hope, and seeing everything from a different perspective.
    Thank you so very much for this.
    P.s. I also love your video when you talk about ‘awareness – interruption – redirection’ – it is so incredibly useful too!

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    • Molly Nichols

      I’m so glad it was helpful Rita! I love that…a new window opening toward hope! Yes, it is! xoxo

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  4. Haripriya

    Thank you so much Molly! This email came to me at the perfect time. I do feel that all of this is part of an inner awakening for me. Thank you again!

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    • Molly Nichols

      I’m so happy to hear it came at the perfect time!

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  5. Maria

    I find absolutely fantastic the idea of imagining that my baby might have something to tell me.
    It implements the fact that the baby is there already, waiting for me to receive what he or she want’s me to know. Though I’ve been totally driven by work for a long time and it won’t be less in the next future,
    I have your sessions to listen to before I fall asleep, I hope you never close the replay page and I am so thankful for your videos on vimeo! I’ve never met a doctor who would pay such an attention to the emotional and mental state, it’s amazing how simple and important are the things you explain in an easy way, repeating some phrases in order to underline them.

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