I live so much of my life by what I FEEL.
So when the energy of confusion presents itself, it can drive me a bit mad!
I don’t like feeling unsure.
I want the energy
and the feelings
to be pure.
And if they aren’t, I will try to do what it takes until I find clarity and feel somewhat back in alignment.
Now, I don’t do this with force or pushing.
Forcing yourself to think something different, or trying to make yourself be okay with something you’re just not, has never really worked for me.
I feel moving through confusion starts with acknowledgment and then acceptance of how you’re feeling.
Being honest with yourself about what is coming up and where you’re at in the moment.
Then taking a loving curious approach without labeling any of it as right or wrong, good or bad.
I think that so much of the confusion that is cultivated when you’re struggling to have a baby comes up because you want to know that all you’re doing to increase your fertility are the RIGHT things.
That you’re making the RIGHT choices.
And when you’ve done so much and still don’t YET have your baby, it can leave you feeling confused.
Wondering if any of it has been helping at all.
Well I am here to tell you this…
It’s ALL supporting you.
Even if you are not YET pregnant, it does not mean that what you’re doing is not working.
And I know there are a lot of different opinions around what is best for your fertility.
But, here’s the thing…
You are unique.
Your body is unique.
Your baby is unique.
Your fertility is unique.
Your relationships are unique.
What is going to be best for you on your journey to having your baby is going to be unique just for you!
So, when making choices about what is best for you…
FEEL into each choice.
Release the attachment to right or wrong, good or bad.
FEEL into it!
It may go against what others have advised.
It may even feel irrational.
But, feel into what FEELS light and TRUE for you.
FEEL it in your body.
FEEL it in your heart.
Your mind may cause confusion, but your heart knows the TRUTH.
A question you can ask yourself or journal around is…
“If I fully trusted myself, my body and my baby in this moment, I know that the right choice moving forward would be to…”
Then be open to what comes up.
Don’t judge it or over-intellectualize it.
Simply be with it with love and curiosity.
Then go from there!
Keep asking questions and see where it takes you.
What I want for you, is for you to feel connected and grounded on your fertility journey.
So that you have the energy and strength to keep going, because I truly believe there is SO much hope for you!
I hope you have the most beautiful day!
Love and hugs,